Nick degroot

[LIL EVO]

Anyone personally know this waste of space?

He's been ignoring my messages and was hoping he would man up and talk to me because he's been fucking my girlfriend for several months.

I was hoping we could settle things like grown ups.

[Flicktitty]

I used to talk to him quite a bit. He has seemed to fall off the face of the earth for months at a time.

sorry to hear about your girlfriend.

[-stew-]

You should prolly post nudes of the whore.

[STANMAN]

Does "settling things like grown ups" include outing two people on the internet? Think about it, don't just get mad and blast me for pointing it out. I have always had a lot of respect for you, I have sent customers to you, but this is not the right way to go about this. Remember the 48 hour rule (for those unfamiliar with the 48 hour rule, it's taking any potentially emotional decision and storing it for 48 hours until making the decision. Within 48 hours the human mind will take that thought and move it from the emotional side of the brain to the rational side for clarity) at times like this.

I am sorry for the betrayal, it's an awful feeling, and I am sure your emotions are raging. Be better than them (your emotions, and the affair persons), rage and vent as needed, but don't linger on those emotions, there is no long term value in them. Move as quickly as possible into healing and reevaluating the situation and concentrating there, the long term benefits found in those emotions are much more profound.

[Prince Valiant]

He used to be on here iirc...drove a pontiac grand am or something or another? Was driving a 2wd jeep cherokee last I recall.

[Korndogg]

No honey can resist the deggyfresh.




http://a1.ec-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/21/7d96284534a74a1785aa4b379fc61286/l.jpg

[michelle]

Haha, you looked up his Myspace account?

[Waver]

HAHAHA! Is it even worth it? just dump the bitch, post her newds (because you know they will end up on youporn anyhow) and move on with life....just curious how you found out?

[blackmage]

You sure do have a lot of drama in your life.

[LIL EVO]

I'm an objective and disciplined person. All I wanted was the truth and no one will give me that. It's what I deserve.

[Ricky Bobby]

Damn haven't heard from that dude in many yrs

[Josepy]

I'm an objective and disciplined person. All I wanted was the truth and no one will give me that. It's what I deserve.

Yeah this is probably not a good spot to find the truth. Better thread would have been anyone know how to get a hold of deggyfresh? Either way might as well post nudes of the cunt now.

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[Prince Valiant]

well, according to his history, Deggy was viewing this at 5:02 today.

[Moparjim]

Nothing like kicking off Spring with some BCM drama!

Or is this an April Fools joke maybe? Just hopin...

[tommyt5078]

Nothing like kicking off Spring with some BCM drama!

Or is this an April Fools joke maybe? Just hopin...


I hope your right......................

[Prince Valiant]

Given evo's penchant for jokes in the past, it would not surprise me....but this is a little out there even by his (or his friends) standards.

Recall the "coming out" thread a few years back?

[-stew-]

Recall the "coming out" thread a few years back?

just Nicks...

[Reverend Cooper]

I mean he looks really tough,you gunna need back up and shit.if your old lady is humping him you should go back to get cool school

[Nickerz]

Shows as yesterday for time, so as long as its not an april fools.... first of all, EX girlfriend. Second, that's not the "adult" way.

[LIL EVO]

Yep the adult way is to ignore problems and have them disappear.

She said she loves me and it was one kiss that was a mistake. So business as usual I guess.

[nismodave]

Could be worse, it could of been Brandon W......Or Breecher.....or Kid Cougar.

[nismodave]

Yep the adult way is to ignore problems and have them disappear.

She said she loves me and it was one kiss that was a mistake. So business as usual I guess.

One kiss where?

[Reverend Cooper]

wait you said fucking first,kiss is way worser

[nismodave]

Worser?

[Flicktitty]

Worser?

Mustang owner.

[pOrk]

Lol ^

I remember that kid. If your girl is doing somebody else while shes with you, she ain't worth keeping. I never understood why ppl get mad at the person their significant other is cheating on instead of with them. He doesn't owe you anything, she does.

[LIL EVO]

When they are fully aware of the relationship and know both of us, it is a little more personal.

[-stew-]

When they are fully aware of the relationship and know both of us, it is a little more personal.

If you have to come on here to try and get ahold of him, your friendship isn't strong enough to prevent and fucking of anyones girlfriend. He's just some dude who got some pussy, she cheated on her boyfriend. Shes the one who did something wrong.

[LIL EVO]

Alright. I'm done. Thanks for the support.

[Crawlin]

it sucks man, it really does. I understand you looking for any and all ways to contact this guy. I hope you find it. I can understand, I chose to stay with my fiance when she was texting her ex that she wishes she knew what life was like had he not moved away. I loved her too much, and in the end, it still ended and has taken a bit out of me on the relationship side of things when trying to meet new people. I eventually got my answers, and I eventually had the ability to discuss how that betrayal hurt.

I hope you get that chance. One kiss, one blow job, one fucking, its all the same in my eyes now. And just like when people ask "how many people have you slept with", its never the truth so I wouldn't take this explanation as to what happened as the truth either. No matter what, you aren't going to get the true story no matter how much you want it or feel you deserve it. Its not your fault at all, its just that those types of people don't want to deal with the humiliation of it.

Outing the guy on here is fine. Just like a guy who's burned someone on a purchase/sale of an item, you want to make sure others know of the type of person they are dealing with/surround themselves with.

I really hope you get what you are looking for, but I'd be getting rid of her no matter what at this point. Its only going to get worse, and its always going to be in your mind if you stay.

[Waver]

it sucks man, it really does. I understand you looking for any and all ways to contact this guy. I hope you find it. I can understand, I chose to stay with my fiance when she was texting her ex that she wishes she knew what life was like had he not moved away. I loved her too much, and in the end, it still ended and has taken a bit out of me on the relationship side of things when trying to meet new people. I eventually got my answers, and I eventually had the ability to discuss how that betrayal hurt.

I hope you get that chance. One kiss, one blow job, one fucking, its all the same in my eyes now. And just like when people ask "how many people have you slept with", its never the truth so I wouldn't take this explanation as to what happened as the truth either. No matter what, you aren't going to get the true story no matter how much you want it or feel you deserve it. Its not your fault at all, its just that those types of people don't want to deal with the humiliation of it.

Outing the guy on here is fine. Just like a guy who's burned someone on a purchase/sale of an item, you want to make sure others know of the type of person they are dealing with/surround themselves with.

I really hope you get what you are looking for, but I'd be getting rid of her no matter what at this point. Its only going to get worse, and its always going to be in your mind if you stay.

Crawlin brings up some very good points, and your situation very familliar to me. You need to realize a few things. If you once called Deggy a friend, lets face it, he is not. No one who is a friend would go after another friends girl, ex, or fuck buddy. That right there is just wrong. To do that behind your back is even worse. For that matter, if she says it was just a kiss, it was more than that. Dont believe her. It is the human response to down play what happened when they know they are caught.

Trust me, you are way better off with out them both. Experience taught me that one.

[BoosTT]

Loose 'em both asap. Let them suffer and cheat on eachother together.

[WickedSix]

use to have his number couple phones ago... i'll see if i still have that phone laying around

[Korndogg]

I'm curious how you went from thinking it was


fucking my girlfriend for several months.

to just


one kiss that was a mistake.



Either way, she would be out the door. No need to kiss someone else if you love them. Even if they are drunk.

[Prince Valiant]

Even if they are drunk.Eh...I can have a limited tolerance for bad drunken behavior to a point. Not repeated bad behavior though...drunken or otherwise.

A drunken kiss wouldn't be the end of the world to me...

[LIL EVO]

I'm curious how you went from thinking it was



to just





Either way, she would be out the door. No need to kiss someone else if you love them. Even if they are drunk.



That was sarcasm if you didn't catch it.

I don't know the truth. I don't believe her and he is no where to be found.

When their text messages say "i love you" then I'm going to draw conclusions.

[-stew-]

Why were you snooping on her phone?

[LIL EVO]

Because I gave her every opportunity to tell me what was going on for the past few months after repeated specific questioning. After that I gave up.

[BoosTT]

Honestly, I don’t think it’s out of line to post something like this here. It sounds like you spent a decent part of your life knowing both of these people. I would want answers if a 2 year long chapter of my life just closed. Truth is though, it’s doubtful you’ll get any additional answers –since you didn’t get any yet.

I came close to a similar situation, but I caught on long before anything happened and did what needed to be done. Pretty much everyone gave exactly the information they thought you already knew. The sooner you can move on the better.

Your friend was a dick for doing this and the girl is at fault too. I disagree that the friend is not at fault.

[Korndogg]

Ah sorry. Yeah I didn't catch that. Well I don't know anything about the guy. I bought an xbox from him like 6 years ago lol.

[pOrk]

Why is the 'friend' at fault? If she cheated with him she would cheat with anybody else just the same. So dumb.

Also, he isn't your friend if he stuck it I'm your girl. Jus sayin

[LIL EVO]

I've "let it go" with past relationships and I'm at a point now where I don't give up anymore and demand results.

The next step is that I confront him at work. I hope it doesn't have to come to that. If I was in that position, Id much rather want to give someone a text reply than tell someone something to their face.

[SSDude]

If you think your going to get answers that mean anything you're dreaming. Ditch the bitch and A-hole. Their not worth wasting a breath on. Look forward not back.

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[LIL EVO]

Why is it that hard?

I would tell someone if they were polite and sincere about it. I'm sure everyone has already been through a similar situation and knows the feeling.

[Prince Valiant]

Ditch the bitch and A-hole. Their not worth wasting a breath on. Look forward not back.
Seriously, this.

People think they're going to get some satisfaction or resolution from a show-down or hashing it out...to me the best satisfaction is knowing no-one controls my life or my actions. It's much more satisfying knowing that they can't provoke a response from you and you can simply walk away from it all.

[SSDude]

Why is it that hard?

I would tell someone if they were polite and sincere about it. I'm sure everyone has already been through a similar situation and knows the feeling.

Been there Done that. In hindsight it was never worth the wasted time/obsession for nothing that will matter a year from now or sooner if you move on now.

[Nix]

Do y'all live together?

[Firefighter Z]

Call her up and have her come over while your banging some other chick... And when she walks in just say "Hi, care to join us? NO? well you know where the door is" and as she leaves say "I love you!"...

[Waver]

I've "let it go" with past relationships and I'm at a point now where I don't give up anymore and demand results.

The next step is that I confront him at work. I hope it doesn't have to come to that. If I was in that position, Id much rather want to give someone a text reply than tell someone something to their face.Slow down. What do you expect to happen if you confront him at work? With your luck, his work will call the cops on you. I agree with wanting to hear it in person, and having them see you face to face, but that is not the way to do it.


Why is it that hard?

I would tell someone if they were polite and sincere about it. I'm sure everyone has already been through a similar situation and knows the feeling.Polite and serious about it. Once again, think about what you are saying. You expect anyone who is running around behind your back to be "polite and sincere"? Being polite went out the window along time ago because they did not have enough respect to tell you when things progressed from friendship 7 months ago. As much as you want answers, trust me, you wont feel better about it and the answers you get wont be truthful.

[BoosTT]

Well the friend was the definition of a back staber. He know he would ruin what you had and didn't care. He probably already knew her weaknesses as I suspect she complained about you to him. He probably played this out being a shoulder to cry on and her perfect man (without your faults she listed). This is different then sticking it in a stranger.

You should have used her phone to text pretending to be her. It's the only way you would get some answers. It's ruthless, but fuck it, they were too. There's apps like caller I'd faker. He was an asshole, I don't see a reason why you can't be.

[Prince Valiant]

Call her up and have her come over while your banging some other chick... And when she walks in just say "Hi, care to join us? NO? well you know where the door is" and as she leaves say "I love you!"...
And if she JOINS you, even better ;)


Seriously, there is no demanding results here. This isn't a business deal...

Be done with it.

[kevcuda]

Not that its right or you should even like him but he did you a favor. You found out now rather than in 5 years. I went through a similar thing, fist was mad at him, then just ignored him now if I ever see him Ill thank him. That said if you think something positive can come from confronting him right now I think that would an impossible result. Either way good luck.

[Crawlin]

Slow down. What do you expect to happen if you confront him at work? With your luck, his work will call the cops on you. I agree with wanting to hear it in person, and having them see you face to face, but that is not the way to do it.

What's the manager at the Wendy's gonna do? Hell while you are there confronting him, make sure to pick up a frosty. DOUBLE BONUS!!!

[Reverend Cooper]

Worser=more than worse.like this thread of worser gheyness

[Reverend Cooper]

Or be like ben.take her out get loaded and leave her someplace.that's what friends do.now that would be a douchebag move for sure you then just did worsered to her

[nismodave]

Worsered?

[Waver]

What's the manager at the Wendy's gonna do? Hell while you are there confronting him, make sure to pick up a frosty. DOUBLE BONUS!!!

I dont know what is worse, finding out that your girl was cheating, of finding out it was with a guy who just made fry cook.

[Reverend Cooper]

Worsered?
More worsered?

[Flicktitty]

Mustang owner

[lilws6]

so if i'm going by mustang logic more worsered is double worser

[spooln30]

Get rid of the GF and don't bother asking or whatever your plans are once you see him face to face. He looks like the type of person that would call the cops after you beat his ass. Once a cheater always a cheater, she'll do it again for sure so don't put yourself in that position again.

[Reverend Cooper]

so if i'm going by mustang logic more worsered is double worser

Correct