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JRink
12-26-2007, 09:56 PM
Alright... since I know very few of you, and even the people on here I do know, I admit I don't know very well, so it might be interesting to hear what some people outside my normal group of friends have to say about this.

Where do people go nowadays, aside from bars which I pretty much despise going to, to meet women?

I didn't make it easy on myself when I decided to buy a house out in the boonies where everyone in the entire (small) town seems married with kids, except me, ;). I don't do bars much except for an occasional visit after work for a bite to eat and I don't fancy spending my evenings going to bars to meet women anyways dealing with smoke and loud music. Not to mention, it's difficult meeting anyone when most of my friends are also married, with/without kids, and are even older than I am (most of my close friends are in the late 30s or early 40s). None have single friends so that's not even an option. Work isn't an option for me either based on the business I'm in.

So... single... early 30s. Where to go? I've tried yahoo.com and match.com in the past, but they were a bust -- maybe it's different now though, but I doubt it. Seems like theres 3 bazillion guys for every 1 girl on there. Rare chance of meeting anyone on there it seems...

My one main hobby (cars) isn't the ideal place to meet women either as it's basically a gigantic stick-fest. Maybe I should switch to that latest-craze picture-book stuff chicks are into... whatever the heck that stuff is called (it eludes me at the moment). Bah.

So. Anyone else in the same situation? Just looking for ideas. And no thanks btw, I'll pass on the Russian bride services off the internet. Unless of course you can find me a real hot one at a steal of a price. LOL.

Regards,
JR

Windsors 03 Cobra
12-26-2007, 10:03 PM
Church ?

Z28Roxy
12-26-2007, 10:07 PM
Heh... you think you have it bad!

Anyway, if you find out let me know. And I'll do the same for you. :banana1:

PB86MCSS
12-26-2007, 10:13 PM
Theres always attractive girls shopping at Target's and some grocery stores. Not sure how you could start a conversation though.

Cruise highway 100 for some quality girls.... :D

Friends, work or other mutual friends are the best way....low pressure situations. Any way to make some younger friends? I can't imagine having all older friends like that. Bars are good to meet a fling, only know maybe a few people that have had a real relationship come out of a bar pickup.

Smokey1226
12-26-2007, 10:22 PM
And I'll do the same for you. :banana1:

Last time i was told that i left her house smileing :D

GRAMPS SS
12-26-2007, 10:30 PM
ask tom...i'm sure he has a few extra laying around :D

Silver350
12-26-2007, 10:31 PM
Usally I meet girls at my work, or get set up on dates from my parents or other people that want to play match makers. None of them actually worked out but i at least had fun on the dates.

Winter time I sit on my arse so I really cant meet anyone because I am usally sitting at my apartment

nismodave
12-26-2007, 11:05 PM
There are women all over Milw area. Some good, mostly bad. Depends on what type you are looking for. You have to find spots where you are comfortable, and they have the type of chicks you like.

PM me man, we will go on the hunt some night.

Poncho
12-26-2007, 11:08 PM
I pick up myspace whores. Worked well so far.

Reverend Cooper
12-26-2007, 11:43 PM
whore's are cool

Flight_740
12-26-2007, 11:53 PM
There are women all over Milw area. Some good, mostly bad. Depends on what type you are looking for. You have to find spots where you are comfortable, and they have the type of chicks you like.

PM me man, we will go on the hunt some night.


Right on dave. You just have to find the spot you like. Say for instance, you like trailer park girls...........Hang out in stallis. If you like the ritzy ass classy girls, buy a suit and head down to bluse for the evening.:thumbsup My favorite.


Or there is this


WWW.MAILORDERBRIDES.COM

:rolf

stowsea
12-27-2007, 01:55 AM
Right on dave. You just have to find the spot you like. Say for instance, you like trailer park girls...........Hang out in stallis. If you like the ritzy ass classy girls, buy a suit and head down to bluse for the evening.:thumbsup My favorite.


Or there is this


WWW.MAILORDERBRIDES.COM

:rolf

god dam! http://www.globaladies.com/rwg_showlady.cfm?cycle=4&skala=inches&Input_LadyID=GL52061229&BioID=&vsrc=A01&vcf=brewcitymuscle.com&vovkey=Mail%20Order%20Brides&vmtype=&vsite=A01&vpage=A01_Index&vref=1

Al
12-27-2007, 03:27 AM
Church ?

I'll second that.

If you want a real keeper, that is someone who you can bring home to mother and will most likely stay with you for the rest of your life, you are best off in church on Sunday morning than a bar on saturday night.

hrsp
12-27-2007, 03:42 AM
there all over the place...a GOOD women is hard to find...

if you see one that attracts you go make conversation..the worst she can say is "no" or "im taken" you never know where you might meet someone special

Arigmaster
12-27-2007, 07:15 AM
I know of one on the market but I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy...

H8RADE
12-27-2007, 07:23 AM
I pick up myspace whores. Worked well so far.

http://i163.photobucket.com/albums/t290/jforse/ceiling_cat.jpg

Rocket Power
12-27-2007, 07:36 AM
Porn stores:thumbsup

michelle
12-27-2007, 07:42 AM
You could head to Whitewater and I can find some college-aged girls for you. (:

WickedSix
12-27-2007, 07:45 AM
hangout with new groups of people....opens you up to more people and more potentials...seems like the easiest way to get to know someone without really commiting to anything right from the off :thumbsup

and the church idea.....well my mother sure would agree but to be honest....just cus they are in church on sunday doesn't mean they weren't a whore the rest of the week

GHOSST
12-27-2007, 07:59 AM
but to be honest....just cus they are in church on sunday doesn't mean they weren't a whore the rest of the week Agreed! Man..... Well, just dont go to the Mall, or the movies, or clubs, or bars... try College held events, simple stuff like prep rallies, or college held promotions or something.. I used to go to this thing called "Midnight Madness" at UWM for the new season of basketball, were they introduced the new team, and the cheerleaders are there, lots of hot college chicks... whoa man, I loved it! Whores everywhere...:headbang

wikked
12-27-2007, 10:02 AM
Most church girls are the dirtiest whores in waiting that you've ever seen :]

Years of repression = *brace for impact*

Nothing wrong with that!

Sleeper Sierra
12-27-2007, 12:26 PM
Well I had very good luck with match.com a few years ago. I was seeing six girls after a week of being on the site. After a month of this I chose won we dated for about a year and I proposed and the rest is history. It will be three years on new years eve that we have been happily married.

Prince Valiant
12-27-2007, 12:50 PM
Dog parks...the one in Mequon is a good place to go. Pick up a socialable dog from a friend and just hang out (late spring/summer is best). It's where I met my future wife...

lit666
12-27-2007, 12:52 PM
Dog parks...the one in Mequon is a good place to go. Pick up a socialable dog from a friend and just hang out (late spring/summer is best). It's where I met my future wife...

:wstupid

I have to agree. I used to hate going with my GF but I loved going while she was at work.

DirtyMax
12-27-2007, 01:12 PM
^^ Good idea! So much so I think they made a movie based on that tactic... :thumbsup

lit666
12-27-2007, 01:16 PM
^^ Good idea! So much so I think they made a movie based on that tactic... :thumbsup

did they really? lol

70 cutlass 442
12-27-2007, 01:21 PM
Well I had very good luck with match.com a few years ago. I was seeing six girls after a week of being on the site. After a month of this I chose won we dated for about a year and I proposed and the rest is history. It will be three years on new years eve that we have been happily married.

I Never knew thoes sites worked, i usually figured that the girls on there are there for a reason. but sounds like you did well :thumbsup

jamest
12-27-2007, 02:09 PM
What about social sports programs such as milwaukee social club. They have a ton of coed teams which is relaxed environment to meet new people.

http://www.milwaukeesocialclub.com/

They have kickball during the summer/fall so even if you are not that athletically inclined that could be something you would be able to do without having much skill.

Flicktitty
12-27-2007, 02:11 PM
There are women all over Milw area. Some good, mostly bad. Depends on what type you are looking for. You have to find spots where you are comfortable, and they have the type of chicks you like.

PM me man, we will go on the hunt some night.

No shit, I know who to call now. Hell Ryans going out with that Chick you helped him with up at BW3's

nismodave
12-27-2007, 02:23 PM
Just call me the loooooove Doctor. LOL

domokun
12-27-2007, 02:29 PM
this may sound lame....but criagslist...

youd be suprised. my good friend is getting married in july to someone he met of CL, whereas another one is dating one from CL also. both ladies are SUPER down to earth.

im not going to lie, ive had my fair share of hook up from there in the past haha

Z28Roxy
12-27-2007, 02:30 PM
this may sound lame....but criagslist...

youd be suprised. my good friend is getting married in july to someone he met of CL, whereas another one is dating one from CL also. both ladies are SUPER down to earth.

im not going to lie, ive had my fair share of hook up from there in the past haha

Just don't post pics of nothing but your wang :rolf

JRink
12-27-2007, 07:48 PM
You could head to Whitewater and I can find some college-aged girls for you. (:

LOL. Uh, where do I sign up for this? I live fairly close to Whitewater. Maybe we can turn my house into a sorority house and I'll just live there too. I have 1700 sq-ft available for a few lucky girls. :thumbsup Give me a shout and we'll figure it out, hehe.


god dam! http://www.globaladies.com/rwg_showlady.cfm?cycle=4&skala=inches&Input_LadyID=GL52061229&BioID=&vsrc=A01&vcf=brewcitymuscle.com&vovkey=Mail%20Order%20Brides&vmtype=&vsite=A01&vpage=A01_Index&vref=1

OMG. Where do I sign up for "that"? Too bad she doesn't speak a lick of English, heh.


I pick up myspace whores. Worked well so far.
Um, I'm not 14 anymore. I have never even been to myspace and don't fancy creating an account when I could be a dad for most of those preteen girls.


There are women all over Milw area. Some good, mostly bad. Depends on what type you are looking for. You have to find spots where you are comfortable, and they have the type of chicks you like.

PM me man, we will go on the hunt some night.

Might have to do that. Could be fun.
PS - I miss those gals in your avatar too, lol. Bring them back.


Seriously though, it does get old after awhile hanging around married couples all the time. I like my friends, but I'm getting tired of being the single guy in the group. Not to mention the friendly ribbin' I take from time to time about it.

Jesse

MurphysLaw88GT
12-27-2007, 07:54 PM
troll local college campuses. you get older...they stay the same age

Russ Jerome
12-27-2007, 07:54 PM
You could head to Whitewater and I can find some college-aged girls for you. (:

You keep my daughter out of it....I got enough problems!

michelle
12-27-2007, 08:06 PM
You keep my daughter out of it....I got enough problems!

She goes to Whitewater? What is she studying?

Karps TA
12-27-2007, 08:18 PM
What about social sports programs such as milwaukee social club. They have a ton of coed teams which is relaxed environment to meet new people.

http://www.milwaukeesocialclub.com/

They have kickball during the summer/fall so even if you are not that athletically inclined that could be something you would be able to do without having much skill.

The Milwaukee social club is perfect if you want to pick up an alcoholic. :alcoholic

Unless things have changed drastically in the last 5-6 years, there weren't a whole lotta lookers there. lol


I do agree it's a PITA trying to find someone the older you get. I laugh when I look at some of the personal ads at the women who are my age, 34ish. They look so damn old to me. lol

Wish I could offer you some help, but I'm even worse at it then you probably are. And even if I do meet someone I tend to screw it up pretty quickly. Hence why strippers are so much easier to deal with.

Russ Jerome
12-27-2007, 08:59 PM
She goes to Whitewater? What is she studying?

Brianna is studying Social work...low pay and little rewards.
She was also in some stuff related to teaching if I remember.

She's nearby but off campus this year, her BF's name is Jake.

300pny
12-27-2007, 10:14 PM
Alright... since I know very few of you, and even the people on here I do know, I admit I don't know very well, so it might be interesting to hear what some people outside my normal group of friends have to say about this.

Where do people go nowadays, aside from bars which I pretty much despise going to, to meet women?

I didn't make it easy on myself when I decided to buy a house out in the boonies where everyone in the entire (small) town seems married with kids, except me, ;). I don't do bars much except for an occasional visit after work for a bite to eat and I don't fancy spending my evenings going to bars to meet women anyways dealing with smoke and loud music. Not to mention, it's difficult meeting anyone when most of my friends are also married, with/without kids, and are even older than I am (most of my close friends are in the late 30s or early 40s). None have single friends so that's not even an option. Work isn't an option for me either based on the business I'm in.

So... single... early 30s. Where to go? I've tried yahoo.com and match.com in the past, but they were a bust -- maybe it's different now though, but I doubt it. Seems like theres 3 bazillion guys for every 1 girl on there. Rare chance of meeting anyone on there it seems...

My one main hobby (cars) isn't the ideal place to meet women either as it's basically a gigantic stick-fest. Maybe I should switch to that latest-craze picture-book stuff chicks are into... whatever the heck that stuff is called (it eludes me at the moment). Bah.

So. Anyone else in the same situation? Just looking for ideas. And no thanks btw, I'll pass on the Russian bride services off the internet. Unless of course you can find me a real hot one at a steal of a price. LOL.

Regards,
JR

First off I would suggest moving to a location where you can meet the kind of person your looking for. IF your a working professional try the 3rd ward area, if you are you bible thumper church of course. Do volunteer work that is always a winner with the ladies. Other than that I dont have a whole lot of usefull tips.

Holeshot
12-27-2007, 10:52 PM
Seriously though, it does get old after awhile hanging around married couples all the time. I like my friends, but I'm getting tired of being the single guy in the group. Not to mention the friendly ribbin' I take from time to time about it.

Jesse

I understand how you feel. Thats why I always leave the wife at home. Beside its easier to :drool: at the single ladies with out her around :rolf

stowsea
12-28-2007, 12:00 AM
OMG. Where do I sign up for "that"? Too bad she doesn't speak a lick of English, heh.


wtf does that have to do with it?:goof:banana

wikked
12-28-2007, 09:53 AM
I dunno why some of you are even married/have gf's if you're just gonna drool over what you can't have.
Unless you have some kind of teasing fetish :p

Marriage is for the birds. lolgetoffmylawn.

70 cutlass 442
12-28-2007, 10:38 AM
You could head to Whitewater and I can find some college-aged girls for you. (:

Im terrified of white water, i herd that something like %70 of the student population has or had a STD, and after watching that chappel episode, im not about to go catch one of them.

rally_scort
12-28-2007, 11:18 AM
Im terrified of white water, i herd that something like %70 of the student population has or had a STD, and after watching that chappel episode, im not about to go catch one of them.

iirc, last time i went with you to whitewater, i got married on the steps in front of the bar :thumbsup

88Nightmare
12-28-2007, 11:27 AM
just wrap your tool. and then get some penicillin

michelle
12-28-2007, 11:31 AM
Im terrified of white water, i herd that something like %70 of the student population has or had a STD, and after watching that chappel episode, im not about to go catch one of them.

Never heard that, but wouldn't be all that surprised. Party school are usually like that.

GHOSST
12-28-2007, 11:33 AM
just wrap your tool. and then get some penicillin
Now where's the fun in that?:alcoholic

88Nightmare
12-28-2007, 11:35 AM
yeah I know, wrapping it up is no fun, but then if you dont then thats just one more lie on your long list.


"i dont do drugs"
"I dont drink alcohol"
"I promise I'll pull out"



its just easier to wrap him up :D

GHOSST
12-28-2007, 11:46 AM
"I promise I'll pull out" I used that once... now I got a set of twins, :thumbsup. Proud parent oh yes, good liar, oh no!

88Nightmare
12-28-2007, 11:52 AM
I used that once... now I got a set of twins, :thumbsup. Proud parent oh yes, good liar, oh no!

:rolf :rolf :rolf :rolf :rolf :rolf :rolf :rolf

congrats on the kids. shame on you for bein a shitty liar! :rolf

GHOSST
12-28-2007, 11:54 AM
:rolf :rolf :rolf :rolf :rolf :rolf :rolf :rolf

congrats on the kids. shame on you for bein a shitty liar! :rolf Hahaha, thanks, I love them kids.

70 cutlass 442
12-28-2007, 02:54 PM
just wrap your tool. and then get some penicillin

I think ill just stick to the myspace hoes for now, latex is only so effective! plus im workin on doin all these girls on this others top 8! :banana1:

vdub4life
12-29-2007, 02:40 PM
stop looking and she will find you,atleast thats how i did it!!:thumbsup:banana

HY35F2T
12-29-2007, 04:18 PM
stop looking and she will find you,atleast thats how i did it!!:thumbsup:banana

after shes found half of bcm members.:banana1:

STANMAN
12-29-2007, 04:21 PM
after shes found half of bcm members.:banana1:

Hey, if she's hot, can we make it "half + 1"???:rolf

Crawlin
12-29-2007, 06:34 PM
after shes found half of bcm members.:banana1:

HA!!!!

"It's where I met my future ex-wife"

GRAMPS SS
12-29-2007, 06:39 PM
after shes found TOM (Badls1) the stud of bcm members.:banana1:



corrected for truth...:thumbsup

HY35F2T
12-30-2007, 02:26 AM
corrected for truth...:thumbsup

hahaha lmao :alcoholic:alcoholic

lordairgtar
12-30-2007, 10:45 AM
Church can be a good place like was said but grocery stores, dog parks are too. Try fitness clubs. I know you don't like the bar scene but how about karaoke night at some small place. I met mine at karaoke and she wasn't a drinker. I am older than most on this place. Before I found Lori, I was dating a lot of the girls who showed at karaoke. My best friend had lovely assistants for his karaoke show and I dated almost everyone at least once. Used to piss him off big time. I am not the best looking guy, but these girls were HAWT.